Okay, title says it all. I'm not fat or anything I weigh about 130lbs, but I want to tone my stomach down, I got a little jelly donut factory going. But it seems every time I try to exercise I get distracted since I have ADD. Its times like this I wish I had ADHD so I could just run around. Anyways I want to know ways that fun to tone my stomach down? I tried sit ups but then I hear the ding sound from when I get a email and I run to my laptop. Then the fact that I always have munchies doesn't help the issues. If I'm bored I eat, if I'm sad I eat, eating is also one of my distractions. I can't seem to stayed focused enough to do the tummy-toning exercises. I have tried hiding the distractions, which doesn't help since I know where I hid them. I try to motivate myself by saying to myself 'Flatten your stomach down and Matt might ask you out.' doesn't work because then something like a cheeseburger will pop up in my head and I have to immdiatly get some food.

I also try saying that I'll be able to wear a bathing suit that I can show my stomach. But then I get scared which ruins my motivation. I have always worn bathing suits that cover my stomach, the halter top bathing suits with the boy short bottoms. I have been scared to show my body off, yes I have a nice tan since I'm Native American/African American/Caucasian. But I'm still scared people will say I'm fat, which makes me comfort eat. Yeah, yeah low self-esteem, go ahead judge me.

I have tried every tummy-toning exercise I can think of. I have tried by running a mile three times a week and again I get distracted. I'll see s rabbit or a squirrel and I'll start chasing it. Plus I wake up in the middle of the night to get a snack, it's all going to my hips, I just know it is or as my sister says my boobs. Anyways I want a fun exercise that works my stomach and I guess most of my body, I don't care about losing weight, I just want a flatten stomach. Maybe healthy foods that fill me up so I don't have munchies or something.

Does anyone know any good ADD exercises that help me from getting distracted? No don't even say medication because I don't need them, I'm not that ADD. Do I need some sort of focus attention exercises or do I need eat some sort of food?

So questions:

What do I need to do to stay focused?

What fun exercises are there that I can do?

Thanks for taking the time to read!

When I went to Ohio for my big sister's early college/high school graduation I saw my friend Tara at my big sister's graduation party. According to my friend Tara I am no longer considered a black person. I am only half black (my mom is white, my dad is black), but according to her I'm all white. She said that black people don't dress the way I do, so I am no longer black. She is white but considers herself black, she hates white people, don't ask me why. I asked her to define being black. She said "Black people aren't emo and don't wear what you wear."

.....?

See where this got confusing? So I asked what do they wear and what more defines them. So she said, "Well black people are 'gangsta', they listen to rap and they where brands such as Sean John, Baby Phat and South Pole. They don't wear things from...Hot Topic. Well Alexis is the only other emo black person I know."

You can kind of guess my reaction. She being such a stereotype. Not all black people are like that. I wanted to rip my hair out. I know other black people who aren't like that, not all of them are 'gansta', listen to rap and wear baggy clothing.

So I want to know what defines being 'black'? Wearing baggy clothes and listening to rap? Or what? Tell me what you think.

 Okay so my hair is Manic Panic's Hot Hot Pink color and for the longest I've been trying to figure out a way to keep it in longer. Well I had tried EVERYTHING! Adding vinegar (don't do it, dogs will try to eat you), leaving it to sit over night, straightening it while the dye was in and nothing worked. So it seemed everyother week I was putting dye in. Then one day I remembered what my aunt said may work, mixing hair conditioner and the dye.

Well it worked! I'll tell you the steps

1. Get the hair dye of your choice of any brand (works best with Manic Panic).

2. Get a 8oz. Liquid Applicator Bottle (it works best for roots but you can also use a cup or bowl)

3. Put as much hair dye in it as you need (leave room for the conditioner and shaking/mixing) and add some conditioner, make sure its not to much.

4. Shake it, no not Metro Station's song, shake the bottle or stir depending whether its a bowl, cup or bottle.

5. Make sure it has a creamy look to it.

6. Apply it to selected area and let it sit for a few hours, it won't damage your hair.

7. Wash it, if you pay attention you'll noticed there's barely any dye coming out. That's because absorbed it along it with the nutrients from the hair conditioner.

Final result, it should last awhile

 (Sorry it's a crappy picture, it was 2am XD)